One of my mom tricks of the trade has been singing. If my daughter is crying, I sing. If it’s time for food, I sing. If we’re getting out of the bath, I sing. If she’s getting bored in the car, you guessed it…. I sing. We know that music is a full brain experience, meaning that it engages many parts of the brain all at once. I find that what this means for my daughter on a really practical level is that singing has the potential ability to:
Grab her attention. Sometimes this means distracting her from what she was fussing about
Cue behavior. Music is a powerful tool in helping to cue behavior. I have decided on certain songs that I sing for various parts of the day and it helps remind my daughter what is coming next. It can be a simple as a musical reminder for naps, one for food, and another for bedtime.
Encourage motor movement. Whether it is rolling over, crawling, standing up or clapping, add music to the day and my daughter is much more interested in moving her little body. Actually, these days the minute I start singing she is clapping her hands.
Facilitate speech development. Singing is engaging, structured and repetitive. This makes it a wonderful tool for modeling and engaging my daughter in exploring her voice.
Teach new skills. I’ve been dabbling with a little bit of sign language with my daughter. Showing her the signs in a song and practicing with the song is fun and it also helps her remember it.
I’ve found that the most important thing about singing with my baby is that there is no pressure and it’s all fun and sweet times together. I’ll explore some fun ways to create songs in the moment in another blog but for now get those vocal chords warmed up and start singing, even if it’s just Row, Row Your Boat all day long.